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Transcript

SPEAKERS

Paris, Sarah Silverman, Jeremy, Mary Kay, Ginger, Simon, Joanna, Tess, Joe

Sarah Silverman  00:14

Hey, y’all, it’s your old pal, Sarah, and you know what I was thinking about? Boy, I had a really bad day about a week ago. Started bad, you know, I have triggers, certain triggers that, if there’s any stress in my body at all, like my sound sensitivity kicks in huge, you know, or one trigger I have, or one hang up I have, is I’ve always felt lazy or worried about being lazy, and I know what it stems from completely. My mom spent a large part of my childhood in bed. It was clearly looking back depression, clinical depression. But at the time, we didn’t know that stuff, really, and my dad just thought she was lazy and was terrified we would become like that his daughters. So we all got this terror where, like, if we were at moms watching TV and the phone rang, we would race to turn the TV off, in case it was dad and he would hear like the TV on in the background, you know. And it became a real, a massive hang up for me. So when I really want to sleep late on a weekend or even a weekday when I can, or any, you know, if Rory makes anything that could be interpreted as a comment about it, it can really trigger me, you know, like, so we will woke up. I woke up, I was in it, I was happy, and I wanted to sleep even more. It was like, 10, and he’s like, well, you want to do this. Will you do that? And I was like, I just want to sleep more. And then he said something like, well, you know, it’s not early, and that just set me off, you know? I was just like, went inside myself, and I was just like, no, I know what time it is. I’m looking at my phone right now, so you don’t have to let me know what time it is. I know what time it is. It’s not early, and what is early anyway, and I’m allowed to bank sleep hours if I decide that’s what I need and want. He’s like, no, I’m not saying that. You know it was like, he had no intentions around it. He had no ill will around it. But I glommed onto it because there’s that tinge inside of me of guilt that I if I sleep late or if I stay in bed, and then that snowballed, and then I went into his office to say, I’m sorry. I’m I was, you know blah, or this or that. And then I can’t remember what happened between us, because it doesn’t matter. It’s irrelevant. But that made it even worse, and now we’re in a fight. We are fighting, we are arguing. We are and then the arguments end up being me going over every step of what just happened, and then him going over every step of just what happened. And they’re slightly different, because where our perspectives are different, and we’re seeing taking things in as two different people, and we just end up going this, and then this, and then I said this, and then you said this, and then he goes, I said this, and then you said this, and it’s just, there’s no point in it, and it didn’t get better. And then we did our own thing, and then he came down and do you want to walk the dogs? And you know what? I go, well, maybe I’ll walk Mary, and you walk Siby. And then he gets upset about that, but the truth is, I wanted a walk, but I didn’t want to walk with Him, because I still needed I wasn’t ready to make nice, not because of anything he did, but because there was rage in my body, and I was, if I superficially upon, you know, made nice or made amends with him. It still was inside me this like rage. So he takes the dogs for a walk, and I go on my yoga mat, and I’m doing push ups, and I’m just trying to, like, exercise this out of me. And I remember just going, this is why I don’t allow guns in the house, because it’s that stuff is whimsical. And when I have this feeling when I am very much not my best self, and I’m filled with rage and pain and frustration and helplessness. You know, I shouldn’t have things around me like that. And I was on my yoga mat, and we have a couple weights, and I’ve done this twice before in our relationship. This is me very much exposing my not my best self, and I took a weight and I punched the wall, and I’m looking at the spackle of the other two times I punched the wall where Rory just comes and he fills it with cocking, or whatever that shit call. He spackles it and they paint over it. It’s like new again, but I did it again because I was my way of acting out. And then around seven o’clock at night, when all the heat went away, you know, it was like I was starting to cool down, but I still had this inside me, but it wasn’t scorchingly, you know, 90 something degrees anymore. I went for a run and I ran. I ran up hills. I ran, you know, sometimes I couldn’t run. I just was like power walking. I just went  and went. And it broke like a fever in me. It just broke. And then I it was euphoria, and I felt so much better, and I loved my man so much. I had just so much love for him. I couldn’t even relate to the anger I had. I saw it suddenly so clearly, and I was fully wrong. And I love that feeling when I when I realized that, because then I can just apologize, and it’s wonderful, you know, and I go to text him how much I love him, and I’m so sorry. And boy, I really found that skeleton key I needed, which is running, whether it’s running or fast walking. So I go in between both, because I’m not a very good runner, but boy, it is my secret weapon of defusing myself and I was so elated to discover this, and I texted Rory, apologizing and telling him how much I love him, and I pressed send, but when I looked he had texted me, and he had texted me the same thing, how much he loves me. He’s so sorry that he’s apologizing for this, this and this, like taking ownership of whatever, which I didn’t even need anymore at all. I was wrong. We’re now we’re both going, no, I was wrong here, you know, like it was lovely. And then I was frustrated because my text wouldn’t go through, because there was no cell service. But anyway, I went home, and I went from a horrible day to just a fucking revelation, and also just feeling so light and so much better, and I learned a new tool, you know, running, who would have thunk it anyway, let’s take some calls.

 

Mary Kay  08:04

Hey, Sarah, I just finished your podcast today. It was great as usual. This is Mary Kay from Michigan, but you started off your podcast today with peeing out of your vagina. And I know you know you don’t pee out of your vagina, but I think you have a great platform, and I think at the end of the podcast, you were addressing women issues and women’s health. And so part of women’s health is women’s anatomy. And I wondered if you could start referring to your vagina as, maybe more literally, your vulva or your urethra or your labia or your lips. That works too. I know you like that one, but I do love your podcast. And I don’t mean to be, you know, negative here, but I think you’re awesome. And hey, as long as we’re on the subject. I love when you talk politics, so hopefully you’ll touch on our new Democratic nominee this coming week. Love your podcast. Thank you.

 

Sarah Silverman  09:32

No. Thank you for calling in. You’re totally right. I, what even is vagina then, but you’re right now, I know, and I’ve known this for a while, and I’ve been corrected, and I need to be more mindful. Vulva, that’s the whole, let’s the whole kit and caboodle. Is your vulva urethra that’s where the pee comes out, or at least one of the places. It seems like it’s like three different places for. Me, but what then? What’s vagina? It’s not the labium Majora, the labia minora or the or the vulva at large, or your urethra or your clitoris. It’s the whole the baby comes out of the canal, the birth canal. Slash penis canal, slash what? Brush handle, pool cue, canal. But I do like saying the correct word, you know, like scientific words, so I’m going to relearn this. Also, it’s like it’s just so exhausting and hackneyed for me. Sarah Silverman to keep saying vagina all the time. It’s like people were doing impressions of me saying vagina 15 years ago, like, move on Silverman, all right. She wants me to talk politics more. I do too, but here’s the straight poop. I’m going on tour, and it’s already costing me. I got I can’t fuck around, and I’ll probably talk a lot more about politics when I’m back from tour. But, um, but yay Kamala. All day long, I’m inspired. I feel like she’s stepping up in a way I never anticipated. I love her VP choice. I’m psyched, and I hope, I really hope, people show up for her. So there you go, what else?

 

Paris  11:29

Hey, Sarah, what’s happening? My name is Paris. I live out here in Lake port New Hampshire, on the big old Lake Winnipesaukee, and I love everything you do. I think you’re awesome. I feel like we’re some sort of spiritual family connection, because I just relate to you so much, and I know you hear that all the time. But anyways, I’m a Massachusetts transplant from Cambridge. I’m up here for political and financial reasons. And I was just wondering, do you ever make it back to New Hampshire now that your family is kind of spread out all over the place, and your parents, unfortunately, are no longer, and I’m sorry to say that happened to you, but um, we’d love to see you in New Hampshire doing something.

 

Sarah Silverman  12:28

Well great news, friend. God, I love that accent, that mass hall, New Hampshire combo accent. I went back, actually, I don’t know, a year ago, I shot my special at the wilba in Boston, and the next day, we drove to Concord for a funeral for a woman who helped my mom raise me. That always sounds like a nanny or something. It’s not she was just a very close friend of my mom’s. She was a teacher, and she did community theater, and we were close Pat delzelle, and she passed away, and went to her funeral the next the next day and celebrated her life. And that’s the last time I was in New Hampshire, but I am going back to Concord, Concord, New Hampshire, and to Boston. I’m doing two shows in Boston on this tour, the post mortem tour, and I am going to actual New Hampshire, to the city I was born in Concord, New Hampshire. I don’t know what date, but you can find the dates on my Instagram home page, on the link that says, post mortem tour, boom so see you.

 

Joe  13:59

Hey, Sarah, it’s your best friend, Joe. Listen what you said about abortion today was totally spot on. It is a Christian Right takeover. The night Trump was elected, I said, there goes abortion. I’ve been fighting along my sisters. I’ve been holding friends hands at abortions. I have been at the birth of two babies, and I just think that women have the keys to the generations, to the bedroom and to the economy. You guys can shut this down, and where’s the pussy hat martch like, why wasn’t there a total shutdown? Shut it all down. I want to know your thoughts about that, and also what you said about legacy? I know you were just kind of saying legacy doesn’t matter, and that was just kind of off the cuff, but I work in nonprofits, and what we can do in terms of long term legacy giving is amazing contact the Rhode Island Foundation or other foundations that can help set up endowments to support causes that are important to whoever you are. And you don’t have to be a billionaire, like, if you just have, like, maybe your house at the end of your life. You can give that, and they can hold on to that and make it money, like a CD. It’ll last forever, and it’ll fun amazing causes. So we might not live forever, but money kind of does. So I love you, thank you for getting me through every week. On Thursday.

 

Sarah Silverman  15:26

Oh, Joe, um, yeah, oh, I hear what you’re saying about legacy, yeah, in terms of that completely, I just mean, like this, this, this thought we have about people celebrating us after death forever. And, yeah, it doesn’t matter, like, it just doesn’t matter. But what you’re saying totally, of course, where’s the pussy hat martch? I you know, I don’t know that pussy hats are gonna do shit at this point. God, I don’t know. This may just be like how I’m feeling in this very moment, but it has to be all women, all men, all people fighting for equality. You know, it’s a women’s issue, it’s a person with Uteri issue, but it is a democracy issue. It’s a, it’s an equality issue, as a justice issue, it’s a class issue. It, you know? Yeah, it would seem to me that abortion is really an equality issue really, you know? I mean, if you don’t have say over your own human body, then you are not equal. Your life is not your own. We trust men to do with their bodies what they decide is right for them. People with Uteri must have the same in order for there to be equality. Make no mistake, this is a war on the poor above everything, illegal, legal, illegal abortion. Rich people will be able to get abortions. There’s always going to be way for people of means to have abortion. This is a war on the poor. With Trump, there’s, there will be no middle class. That’s for sure. It will be billionaires and poor people, and that’s how a lot of horrible countries are dictatorships, straight white men. Hashtag, not all men, but straight white men are the minority in this country and in this world, so they are hanging on tight as fuck, and must keep the majority feeling like the minority, right? So fuck your right. Let’s go majority. Let’s go majority, the fuck out of these people at the ballot box. But I tell you, I love America. I fucking love America. I love this country. I don’t have anywhere else to go, and I have a lot more options than most Americans. So it’s scary. I’m trying not to think about it. Why? Because I feel like there’s nothing I can do. I feel helpless. I feel totally fucking helpless. So I don’t want to make myself unhealthy about it. I want to do whatever I can, and I just don’t know what that is right now. I hope it comes to me. I don’t know. All right, what else fuck.

 

Tess  18:32

Hey, Sarah, it’s your best friend Tess in Kansas, and I just got done rewatching the episode in the Sarah Silverman program, where your remote dies while the kids with cancer telethon is on and you’re desperately, desperately trying to change the channel, then they say, just a few dollars can make it all go away, and you start taping dollar bills all over the TV screen. It just kills me every time I think about that episode. My question is, to what do you attribute your seeming disregard for self consciousness? So surely you offend people all the time. It’s just the nature, the nature of what you do. Does it ever hurt your feelings when you offend people, or can you just shake it off without much trouble? I love you and I thank you so much for all of the entertainment and the joy that you’ve provided me. Thank you.

 

Sarah Silverman  19:34

That was the pilot episode of The Sarah Silverman program, which aired, I think, as episode two or three, but we shot that in my apartment on sweetsern sixth, and I remember my landlord, who lived below me, was very angry. And then for all the other episodes, they built the set, and so it looked just like my apartment. And I remember bringing my dog, duck, who played Doug, onto the set, and it’s just this big, black, cavernous space. And then we went inside the like set they built. And I remember duck, my dog, just like, being like, how are we suddenly at home? It was so it was like, wild. Thank you for calling. You know, it’s complicated. I’m not in it to upset anyone or hurt anyone’s feelings. That said comedy is not for everyone, and there’s always going to be something that upsets someone or but now that we live in this social media age, and there’s been a lot of progress, and I’ve changed from that progress. The more I learn, the more bells I can’t unring in terms of finding out something or some word or some phrase or some thought or idea or something hurts like a whole swath of people cuts I just, I don’t know. I’m a woman of words. I can think of other things, so I tend to not have any desire to talk about that anymore. So what happened was, instead of every once in a while, one person writing a letter to wherever. Every single person in the world has a way to express to say, hey, I don’t like that, or I don’t like this, or whatever. So you’ve got to mitigate it with your own heart. But I learned a lot from the world getting smaller in that way. I mean, boy, just the word gay, you know, coming from New England, and I’ve talked about this a million times, but, you know, I’d go, like, that’s so gay, it’s gay. And then I, in the middle of defending that, at one point, it hit me that I was the guy going, what I say colored. I have colored friends. Like, at a certain point you you got to change with the times. Or once, you know something is not acceptable to people that you care for, at the very least, as fellow human beings, change it up. It’s, you know, there’s so many words to use, so many you know. And you know, there are comics think, Oh, I can’t say anything anymore. And sure, I understand, but I just, I don’t find that to be I find it to be more of a challenge than being put out. But like, hey, I can think of something even funnier, you know. And in that way, if you work in TV and you you know, where you have a boss, you get notes on what you write, and that was a big lesson for me. This is a left turn, but an adjacent left the notes may not be good, but it doesn’t matter, because limits, to a degree, limits in your in creativity, I believe, are your friend. Because now it’s not just blue sky, which can be paralyzing, you have to go, oh, they don’t like this. I disagree, but they might not understand the spirit of their note, but they’re hitting on something. And or even if they’re totally wrong, to address this note, I have to think in this more narrow space of possibilities, and then you come up with something you like even better, nine times out of 10. So I can’t remember how this call started, but I think it all ties together somehow. What else?

 

Joanna  23:37

Hey, Sarah, this is your friend, Joanna. I’m actually calling in about the whole guy sitting down to pee thing. So my ex was uncircumcised, and there’s a couple things this. He’s not the first guy that I’ve been with that was uncircumcised, but he is the first guy I’ve ever been with that sat down to pee. And I did think it was a little weird at first, but then he just explained to me how it was easier because he didn’t have to pull his hood back, and, you know, paint and sure, it went in the toilet. And if he didn’t pull his hood back, you know, go everywhere, kind of like how girls pee. And, you know he also just like sitting down, like he loves me. That just seems scrolling, anyways. The other thing was that they’re supposed to be self cleaning, but I just don’t know, because there was a few times where I had to mention to him that there was an odor that was pretty bad. And you know, I know what penis smells like, but this was just and after I mentioned it to him, he started cleaning up a little bit better, and it wasn’t a problem after that. So what are your thoughts on that? Did you have that experience? Um, thanks. Sarah, love you. Bye.

 

Sarah Silverman  25:02

Look at you. If it’s mentionable, it’s manageable, yeah. I mean, I just, you know, I mean, I think I only dated one guy with an uncircumcised penis, and it was perfectly clean. You know, listen, if you’re heavy or you’ve got folds, or you’ve got extra skin and you’ve got, like, folds, you’ve got to wash in your folds, you know. And an uncircumcised penis is no different. You get a wash in that stuff, you know? I mean, as someone with a vagina, you there, you have to wash the ins and outs of that of many like folds and layers and things. It’s just soap and water. What I’m seeing Amy. I can only see her nails, but they’re like making an expression, like she has an opinion.

 

25:47

No, I’m just taking in the folds of your vagina being washed.

 

Sarah Silverman  25:52

Okay, thank you. So there you go.

 

Ginger  25:59

Hey, Sarah, my name is Ginger. First off, sorta preface this with the fact that you were my gay awakening in School of Rock as a child.

 

Sarah Silverman  26:11

Oh, my God.

 

Ginger  26:12

And also kind of started a thing I think where like when girls are mean to me. So I will be unpacking that with my therapist. But thank you for that.

 

Sarah Silverman  26:21

I know, because that character was not nice.

 

Ginger  26:23

Yeah, I was just wondering if you have ever been through one of those breakups that it feels like the world is crumbling and you are gonna die, and you don’t know how you’ve ever experienced this much pain, just one of those, like, not just a normal breakup, the like, wow, I’m gonna die. Kind of break up. And if you have any perspective, I know you have a partner now, and you know you’ve I’m just wondering if you have any perspective on that, and any light you could shed on what you wish you knew as a young person. I mean, personally, I’m only 22, and I wish I could fast forward, like five years, you know, to have that perspective and know that everything’s going to be okay. So if you have any perspective on that, on young love and on how it feels to heal and grow as you mature and thanks so much. Love you love the pod.

 

Sarah Silverman  27:25

Yeah, you can’t skip five years. You gotta live through it. But um, boy, I know that feeling of going like, I wish I could take a pill and then just wake up another time in my life. But, uh, have I experienced that? Yes, yes, I have, I really have a couple of times. One, I just laugh at looking back and it, oh, I just thought I’d never get over it. And one, really took a while. Boy, you know, I had a relationship that getting out of that I was just emotionally and in practicality, just atrophied, like I just got out of that relationship, not knowing, like, what cell service I had, you know, like I just, I let someone really take over my life in a massive way, and when I it was over, I didn’t know how to be and I felt like I was dying, just like you said. But guess what, I didn’t, and you won’t, either. You’re not gonna. In fact, in time, you will arise from the ashes like a phoenix and begin again from a much more enlightened place, hopefully, and you will, and I know you can’t imagine it now, not even be able to relate to how hung up on this person you once were. You just really won’t. That’s what growth does. And time you mentioned that you that my character in School of Rock was your gay awakening, and that you ended up being kind of attract drawn to mean girls, because that that girl was not she may have been right, ultimately, about Jack Black’s character, but she was not nice, not much of a three dimensional character, to be honest, for such a great movie. But that is not uncommon to be drawn to people who aren’t kind to you that’s just never gonna pan out well, you know the disgust you do? You have a certain kind of disgust when, when women treat you well, adore you, respect you are kind as that turn you off, and it’s one who isn’t impressed by you, or you know that you’re drawn to that that isn’t just taste like a I like vanilla, I like, you know, chocolate or whatever that’s that’s comes from something that you need to figure out and unlearn and practice, you know, I mean to be drawn to someone who is not kind to you or disregards you, I totally get it. It’s that thing you want to win them over, you want to, and this sneaking suspicion that they are right about you, and that ain’t healthy. And also, that kind of person is not a quality person. They have a lot to learn. They have fucked up shit, you know. They they treat people the way they treat themselves inside their heads, you know so someone who’s not happy with themselves, who doesn’t love or accept themself, is going to be shitty to themselves, and worse, to others, and then someone who thinks they deserve that, you will be drawn to it, and it’s you may be brought together to heal if you both figure that shit out and want to grow together. Great, my guess is that’s not going to happen with you at 22 so, um, you gotta respect yourself more and know that you deserve better and that there are people out there that are cool as fuck, that would love you, but Now that you are, you are single and heartbroken. You want to get to the point where you are loving your freedom. Boy, nothing feels better than freedom when you are ready to feel that. I mean, I say this as a woman, once again devoted to an other, but now I know everything I know now, which is the most I’ve ever known then, you know, I only knew what I knew up until that point, which was not nearly as much as I know now. That’s one great thing about life and staying alive and time passing. You know, life is short. It’s so short it’s a blip, but it’s also long, if you let it. And when you stop living in the past and you only look back to see how far you’ve come, that’s a good thing. You know, I’m not talking like careers or whatever. I mean what you know now that you didn’t know then when you didn’t even know there was more to know. And it turned out you didn’t know shit. It’s cool beans. I promise, promise, I promise you will get through this. Comfort yourself, love yourself, be with friends, eat cookies, get your sweat on. You’ll get through this and sleep. Go for it. Sleep and do stuff mindlessly, if you need to, if you need to just get through the day, it’s okay. Good luck let me know how you feel in the six months or three months or a year. Call back, all right. What else?

 

Simon  33:36

Hi, Sarah, it’s your best friend from England, Simon. Hope you’re doing well. I just wanted to ask a quick question. It’s quite a big question, but very quick one. I just finished watching the documentary we have over here called me and The Voice in my Head, which is about the comedian Joe Tosini and his battle with borderline personality disorder. It’s an amazing documentary, but if you ever get chance to see it over there. But I was wondering what questions are, obviously, around mental health disorders, that kind of thing, with the comedians and everything, is there? Is there a culture where you talk to each other about this? Is there like a support network, or do you guys just rely on therapists all the time out there in LA and all that kind of stuff? I hope there is, I hope there’s a support network for you guys, because from what I’ve seen of most comedians, you know, you’ll need it. And I’m joking.

 

Sarah Silverman  34:32

It’s true.

 

Simon  34:34

The good thing about over here is in you know, you can get lots of stuff for free on our NHS Napa health service, and I know it’s different over there for you, so I’m just wondering how it all works, and hopefully you guys look after each other. Okay, thanks very much. Love your show, bye.

 

Sarah Silverman  34:51

I’m happy to report that we do. You know, comedians never had a union, and. Of course, many comedians do go to therapy, myself included. But there is a source, because there are so many comedians and because they run the spectrum of financial security and stuff, there is now a foundation called comedy gives back and I do a lot of fundraisers for them, and they’ve really helped friends of mine. I have an elderly friend who got a terrible diagnosis and had no place to live, recuperate, medical, all this stuff. They were there. They paid for his whole rehab living situation. It was a godsend. It’s called Comedy Gives Back and it’s been really great for comedians access to mental health as well as regular healthcare and aid. But you know, stand up comedy has a very oddly high suicide rate, and I think it’s stand up comedians and dentists, and we really needed it, and our kind of communities, one of our more recent suicides sparked it. I think it started with Brody, right? Brody Stevens and and Dave Rath and Zoe Friedman and a bunch of people put together Comedy Gives Back. And it is really great. If you ever, you know, if you’re at the end of the year and you go, Oh, what charities Am I giving to this year? Maybe consider it. It’s just been really helpful. There are so many comics in need, a lot like in the music industry, it’s sweet relief. So we have that now, and it’s, it’s been really great. All right. What else I’m gonna check that out Joe tracini, me and The Voice in my Head.

 

Jeremy  37:01

Hi, Sarah. My name is Jeremy. I’m a gay man that lives in Chicago. I’m a longtime fan. You’re my favorite comedian. I think you’re so funny. So I’m calling in in hopes that you will help me write a joke. I do bits in friends circles, sometimes in my straight circles, I’m fucking hilarious in the gay circles, I’m like mid so I have a situation that I’ve done this bit a couple times, and it never lands. And so I’m hoping you can help me out with it. So true story. My best friend is also a gay guy, best friend of eight years. He’s a gay man, and he’s also a sex addict, so he’s had lots and lots of partners, and so the bit that I’ve done is is pretty much this. So do you guys have any idea what it feels like to have a best friend that’s a sex addict and he’s never hit on you once? That’s pretty much it. That’s all, um, I’ve seen the men that he takes home, and I’m like, wow, them, but not me, not even one time. You’ve never put the Riz on me, not once. So I’ve tried it a couple times, and it just never lands. And I’m hoping that you can help me with the joke, so that it’s funny. Thanks so much, and I love you. Bye.

 

Sarah Silverman  38:14

I wish I had something to help you. It’s not that funny. I get it, I mean, I’m not saying this is funny, but I’ve heard that in the context of, like, Jimmy Kimmel’s very close with his childhood priest father, Bill, who’s an amazing man. He’s wonderful. And Jimmy used to and Jimmy was an altar boy when he was little with father Bill and Jimmy would, of course, would give him shit and be like, how come he never came on to me, I was an altar boy. Oh, what? I just wasn’t your type, which is such a fucked up joke, of course. And of course, father Bill is, does not molest children, but that’s kind of the joke you’re going for it isn’t that funny. I mean, you know, listen, it’s subjective, but I he’s a sex addict. Why isn’t he come on to me? I sometimes I get too literal. So it’s, it’s probably my problem, but it’s just because, like, you know, the truth is, your friend just probably wants, like, a little bit more faceless sex with people of no consequence in his actual life, whereas you’re like an important figure friend in his life blah. You know that you’re trying to make a joke I’m sorry. I don’t know how to fix this joke though, I’m sorry, dad, wherever you are out there, we’re winding down. This is part of the podcast. When I say, send me your questions. Go to speakpipe.com/theSarahSilvermanpodcast that speakpipe.com/the SarahSilvermanPodcast and subscribe, rate and review wherever you listen to your podcast that will really help us, and there’s more of the Sarah Silverman podcast with Lemonada premium subscribers have exclusive access to bonus content, like someone who’s having trouble choosing between the jobs she loves and the job that pays the bills. Subscribe now in Apple podcasts. Thank you for listening to the Sarah Silverman podcast. We are a production of Lemonada media. Kathryn Barnes and Isabella Kulkarni produce our show, our mixes by James Sparber. The show is recorded at the Invisible Studios in West Hollywood. Charles Carroll is our recording engineer. Additional Lemonada support from Steve Nelson, Stephanie Wittels Wachs and Jessica Cordova Kramer. Our theme was composed by Ben Folds. You can find me at @SarahKateSilverman on Instagram. Follow the Sarah Silverman Podcast wherever you get your podcasts, or listen ad free on Amazon, music with your Prime membership.