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We won a Webby Award!!! And Kulap celebrated her birthday! With real life friends! So, great things are happening, but that also means being honest with how we feel about life picking up again. So SuChin is adding to cart the kind of decision maker she is, especially with her husband Mike. Kulap is adding to cart her first restaurant meals. Plus, the last (but not actually) add to carts for AAPI Heritage Month.

 

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SPEAKERS

Kulap Vilaysack, SuChin Pak

Kulap Vilaysack  00:11

Hello, everyone, welcome to this week’s episode of ADD TO CART. A show about the things we buy and buy into. I’m Kulap Vilaysack.

SuChin Pak 

And I’m SuChin Pak. Listen, we won a Webby Award. We are so excited. I mean, we’re just, we’re just babies, we’re six months in. What are we talking about?

Kulap Vilaysack 

Do awards matter? No, unless you win

SuChin Pak 

You know what? That’s so funny you say that. Because while this whole process is going on, you know, did I care that much? Sure, it was an honor to be nominated. But when we won, I was like, this is the most important award ever given all year long.

Kulap Vilaysack 

This is basically like; I think somebody calls it the Oscars of Web?

SuChin Pak 

Absolutely.

Kulap Vilaysack 

I’ve been calling it that and so congrats, Kulap.

Kulap Vilaysack 

Congrats, SuChin and congrats to our entire Lemonada family. The wind beneath our wings. Who knows what other awards we’ll win? I need so much more now. I’m a greedy little bitch. I want to stuff my holes with awards.

SuChin Pak 

You actually did text to me that she said quote unquote, I want to stuff my holes with awards. I was like, alright, I’m in. Let’s do that. But it is very exciting. I mean, come on. It’s amazing.

Kulap Vilaysack 

It’s also exciting that it’s the last week of Asian American Pacific Islander Heritage Month. So let’s get right to it. SuChin Pak, you follow me on Instagram, you know that I had a grand old time at Palm Springs I was texting you before, after, during, I want to talk about it because it became a real coming out of quarantine event. Like I was there with my best friend’s. Scott and I arrived earlier just so we can have some time for ourselves. And people started kind of coming towards the weekend. And in my mind, I was like, okay, cool. We’ll get a house together. And we’ll cook for each other. And we’ll clean up and the feedback I got was we don’t want to do that.

Kulap Vilaysack  02:46

And I was like, really? They’re like, what if we were to like, go out to eat? What if we hired like a bartender to like make us drinks and maybe pick up a little bit? And I was like, and SuChin I really had to work some stuff out. Because at that point, I hadn’t been in a restaurant. As you know, I’ve kept it really tight. And I was like, truly the idea of being among strangers started to freak me out. And I had to, like really have a session with my therapist.

Kulap Vilaysack 

Were in she was like, are you really in danger? Or are you just used to thinking about being in danger? And I was like, yeah. I also want to make the point that like I’ve only been fully vaxxed for two weeks at this point, and I’m like, give me like a beat you know, give me a beat. But within like two hours. I turned around.

SuChin Pak 

The juices are flowing, the vaxxed juices were pumping.

Kulap Vilaysack 

I was like okay, okay, there’s science, there’s you know, it’s time, Kulap. And I’m saying it’s time for me now. I don’t you know, whatever whoever’s listening, wherever you’re at be where you’re at. Do what makes you feel comfortable. But, like for an hour, I was crying.

SuChin Pak  04:19

Wait, crying alone? Group crying? Crying with Scott? With your dogs?

Kulap Vilaysack 

Crying by myself. Again, when I tell you I was working it out with my therapist. It just was a perfectly timed session. I was afraid of strangers like I mentioned, but also I was like, oh, like I feel so foggy. Like I kind of feel bad that I didn’t think about like other people’s needs. And then I got worried like, oh, what if we can’t find a reservation? Will people miss that? Its own sort of like, my shit, my own shit, right? Literally my friends were asked like, they’re literally like, we’ll take care of it

SuChin Pak 

As they should, it’s your birthday.

Kulap Vilaysack 

And they did and it was great. We had like a Friday group dinner. And that was like really fun. And they indulged me by having a little side room. We were above the fray. Away.

SuChin Pak 

And also VIP.

Kulap Vilaysack 

Yes, thank you. June was looking for a second location like an after party, and I just never was there for the after party. Like I couldn’t. I was like, she got to here. Can we just be okay with that? I can’t, I can’t club. Have you already gone out to eat? Have you done all?

SuChin Pak

Let’s see. Yeah, like maybe a one- or two-person thing outdoors. Not like at a restaurant, but maybe more of like a bar appetizers situation. But it is. And I think there’s a couple of things that you said, which is that this is the part of life, we hold on to things. And then we have to also let go of things. And both of those things are processes. Both have steps. You can’t hold on to things in one fell swoop and you can’t let go of things in one fell swoop. Both of those have steps. And so that’s what you did, you work through the steps and I think it’s important to do that. And I have not let go of that. I need some steps. You can’t go from in your house, having not been to a grocery store in a year and a half to the club. There have to be steps in between. And so I think we all have to just know what our steps are, and be totally fine with that. I don’t know how I’ll be when I’m confronted with that decision.

Kulap Vilaysack  06:48

I mean, I would be shocked if I saw you in the club. In any year. At any time.

SuChin Pak 

If you see me in the club, whisk me away immediately because things are not well, something has happened and what we need to do is roll me into a burrito blanket and rock me for two hours while shooshing me in my ear. That’s what I really need. That’s why I got lost. I lost on the way to the burrito blanket and ended up in the club.

Kulap Vilaysack 

So Friday night we did like we went out to eat that was like, again, so lovely. Saturday, by the pool all day, day drinking and laughing and being together. And then at night, I had arranged for dinner to be made at our place. A taco night. Pretty casual, except there’s always a dress code. With my group of friends there’s always a dress code and the dress code. Oh, we love it. It was cooci, coo plus Gucci equals cooci. All of my friends brought it. They go for it.

SuChin Pak  08:03

Have they ever not brought it?

Kulap Vilaysack 

That’s true.

SuChin Pak 

I mean, honestly, I don’t know this group very long. But what I know of it is they always bring it.

Kulap Vilaysack

And then what is also our tradition is raking people’s outfits.

SuChin Pak 

What? In the presence of the people?

Kulap Vilaysack

That’s right.

SuChin Pak 

Oh my god.

Kulap Vilaysack 

And that part. It’s tough. It’s not necessarily fair. But it’s always funny.

SuChin Pak 

Please tell me that. It’s like drunk ratings. Like you guys are all sloshed.

Kulap Vilaysack 

We sure have we been drinking but it’s expected. You can petition. You can shit talk. People were doing like fashion walks just to show off what they were wearing. They were explaining what their thought process was.

SuChin Pak 

This is my nightmare.

Kulap Vilaysack 

I understand why you would react that way. Because I well, yeah, that’s, I think a normal healthy way to react to what I’ve just told you.

SuChin Pak 

But that no, this is what it is though, is you guys are such good friends. That’s how you know how tight a crew is, is that you can cut each other […] and deep, long and hard and still be laughing. I have friends that way.

Kulap Vilaysack 

The best thing to do and also, I do think is my comedy but the best is to take something that is so unimportant and make it important. Something that has no it means it’s meaningless, but then to imbue it with like did you win or did you lose?

SuChin Pak 

Oh, I’ve been on the other end of that. We played the game here once. I am not going to play a game here for a long time.

Kulap Vilaysack  10:05

The last thing I want to say, and I know I’ve taken a lot of time, but I really took in that I’m so used to like, planning for other people throwing parties for other people, producing, I have a hard time receiving. I have a hard time like, sitting in a moment of receiving, like, I’m so used to like terror. Let’s move past. Like, thank you so much. Can we talk about you like, my friends and my husband were just like, they surprise me with a video of you. You were in the video. And it was so amazing. It’s from my friend Deanna Raphael has a Deanna Chang has a business called The Montage Queen. And she will make beautiful videos that she cuts together of your family members answering questions saying with the best parts of you doing impressions of you, and SuChin was in it. So was my family.

Kulap Vilaysack 

And just to take in what everybody is saying in front of people in front of those people. It’s just, it was so much for me like and I was crying. I was laughing. But I also was like, there’s a part of me that puts up like a barrier. And I’ve been really thinking about what that is. And it is protection, but this is good stuff. But maybe because it’s like, good stuff the way in the household that I was brought up in like good stuff that just didn’t last. You didn’t know when the bottom was going to drop in to really hang on to that good stuff would almost be like heartbreak. Would be to miss it in ways that when I was growing up, I couldn’t survive.

Kulap Vilaysack 

You know, but like, those days are so long behind me. So beyond, I think I said to you, my relationship with my mom used to be the hardest. And it’s not that way anymore. It’s very pleasant and easy. So I was really noticing that and then so it was that video, and then they got merge, they got shot glasses that said coochi. And we did shots. And even then I was like, oh my God and I felt like I wasn’t acting right. Like, maybe it seemed like I wasn’t appreciating like gifts, I was opening them. I just was like so overwhelmed. Yeah, I was so overwhelmed.

Kulap Vilaysack  12:38

Everyone’s looking at me. And I think there is something about, you know, coming out of this quarantine and just really being submerged with like, my loved ones and it just has always been easier to go out. To love out, to shower that way. It’s something I’m working on. It’s just is the receiving, being taken care of, having friends take care of me like and they and like they want to do it and it was amazing. But it’s there’s some old shit that I realized I have to work out. And because I have a fucking great life, and I have great people who love me, and I felt so filled up and so grateful. But I also like real, I noticed that, I noticed that.

SuChin Pak 

I also want to just say, we’ve all had pretty tough years. And you’ve been so vulnerable and open here about the year you’ve had. I also think that as friends. It feels so good to shower you with love and affection. And just like a round of applause. You know, it’s a beautiful thing, but it’s very hard to receive. This is why I’ve never; I’ve had one birthday party that I’ve thrown for myself and it will never happen again. And it you know, I did it when I was 30 I felt like I had to do it and but I can’t do it. The thought of it just like creeps me with fear. Alright, well, we’re gonna take a quick, quick break.

Kulap Vilaysack  14:20

We’re back. SuChin?

SuChin Pak 

Yes.

Kulap Vilaysack 

I want to know, what you mean by the personality differences between maximizers and satisficers.

SuChin Pak 

Yes, that’s actually a word. It’s called maximizers versus satisficers. Look it up. This is a real thing. Have you ever heard of these two personalities being explained to you?

Kulap Vilaysack 

I want to say maximizers but not satisficers.

SuChin Pak 

So this is something a concept that a friend of mine introduced me to because he is a Maximizer. And we were talking about specifically for him, we were talking about that he’s single, he’s in his 50s. And he’s like, I don’t know, I think it’s because of a maximizer. And I was like, what is a maximizer? And a maximizer is someone who every decision in their life requires a lot of research, they want the best. If you’re looking for, you know, a pair of glasses, you’re going to research all the different kinds of ways you’re going to read the reviews, and you’re going to pick the best thing and often maximizers end up with the best thing, you know, in their opinion.

SuChin Pak 

Now, satisficers are, give me two options. And I’ll pick from that, and the two options could be great. So it’s not that the satisficer picks from crappy options, and you can still have expectations, you know, as a satisficer. But once you’ve met that expectation, that’s it, you can let it go and this is what you’re picking from. Does that make sense?

Kulap Vilaysack  16:00

I thought it was maximizer. But I can’t say it a satisficer.

SuChin Pak 

A satisficer. Yeah, and most people are a little bit of both. And I just was thinking about this, about how much of our lives we spend on the tiny, tiny, tiny decisions, and I want to bring this up. I’m moving into a new home. And we’re making some decisions. And I’ve never made renovations to a home. And this is the first time and my partner is what you would call a maximizer. And I am a satisficer to a tee, actually, maybe even to a fault, because I didn’t even need to be too good decisions. Just give me two choices. And I will feel satisfied with the two choices. So I just brought for you our decorative door hardware brochure.

Kulap Vilaysack 

Great. Okay.

SuChin Pak 

We have spent two weeks looking at door handles, Kulap. Round ones, square ones, rectangular ones. Six inches, four inches, ten inches, six inches, is that going to be enough for a hand grip? I mean, you can see how this is going on. And so we’ve both been driving each other crazy. And I’ve just keep coming back to this. And for some reason, it gives me a sense of peace to know that we’re just two different types of decision makers. It’s not that he’s a terrible human being. And that I’m a lazy piece of shit. Because sometimes I feel that way. It’s that we’re just two different people making two different types of decisions and our processes are different. So anyway, I was just curious to see if you know, you related to this. Or if you had, if you were a maximizer or satisficer. You’re probably I think you’re a bit of both.

Kulap Vilaysack 

I’m a bit of both, but I can specifically to renovating with a husband. Since I’ve done it three times now.

SuChin Pak  18:05

And survived. You guys are still happily married. Oh my goodness. I’m listening up putting on my Dumbo ears.

Kulap Vilaysack 

I drive it. Of course he wants to put in of course, he should have input. And of course, he does. You know, he has initial thoughts. And but I it is sort of my quadrant. He does tech, right? Go for tech, you know, do we have a whole conversation really doesn’t even need to be that big. You know, and certainly he is abreast of all stuff, but I will be the person who narrows the choices. And then he can say what he likes, and then we’re going to kind of curb to what ultimately I want. His space is different, like his, like, common areas, you know, that’s gonna it’s gonna lean towards KuKu’s thoughts, more than his, but he accepts that.

Kulap Vilaysack 

Like, it’s more of my interest than not. So if it was also his interest, I could see that there could be a problem. I mean, I think when he used to be a little bit more like, what about this space? What if like, the couch was like this, and then I got so angry that he was like, I don’t think I’ll go in this realm anymore. I was like, that is so insane. Why would you put it in that? Why wouldn’t the rug look like that? You know, so, but also, we all get older and we mellow out and we pick and choose what’s important.

SuChin Pak 

Okay, so here’s a question from a lazy satisficer. But as a maximizer and I’m not saying you’re a Maximizer. But you I think you have both qualities so you can relate to both. But as a Maximizer then does it feel kind of like man, I’m doing all the work because I sometimes feel that way. I sometimes feel bad because I really don’t care. Like, I care a little bit, but I’m not enough even to put up a limp wristed fight.

Kulap Vilaysack  20:11

So do you think Mike cares if you just decide? Would you think he’d be upset if you’re like, Hey, Mike, just pick two door handles and I’ll say which one I like. Do you think that would upset him? Because he knows it’s not fun for you. He knows it’s like pulling teeth. And if he enjoys that part..

SuChin Pak 

I honestly can’t answer that question. So I have to think about it. But I think it’s, you know, because we’re going through this process together right now. We’re so in the middle of it all day long from morning till night. This is all we talk about is doorknobs and hinges.

Kulap Vilaysack 

As my friend June Diane Raphael says, like, she’s like, you know, stop now if you’re looking for relatability. I’m gonna voice why it has worked for us is that even though I have a very heavy hand with interior design, we have an interior designer. So there is a person. Am I as you know, me doing a bunch of Pinterest boards. Am I absolutely pulling things and ideas? Yes, but there is somebody who’s really driving this. And then I’m directing.

SuChin Pak 

She says with the biggest grin on her face, the sun shining on her cheeks.

Kulap Vilaysack 

But there is a person who is gonna make sure that the rugs are the right size is going to you know, there’s certain decisions that she’s gonna present us with stuff. And if we don’t like it, or if I don’t have another idea, like, there’s some shortcuts that happen. And that, you know, is the, you know, I’m speaking from rarefied air, and I’m well aware of it.

SuChin Pak 

And perfectly fine. Perfectly well. To be continued, because we just got the keys. I’ll let you know how this, but I kind of want to have this conversation with him. So I’ve been doing a lot of research around maximizers and satisficers. And, you know, I want to make it fun for him. I don’t, I don’t want this to turn into an argument. But I think it would be kind of a good thing if we both realized that we just have..

Kulap Vilaysack  22:21

Do you truly not care? Or do you. I mean..

SuChin Pak 

If given the choice between caring a lot, and not caring at all, I will choose not caring at all. Does that make sense?

Kulap Vilaysack 

Yeah, Yeah, it does. But you do like aesthetics, like you do not to my level. But this is your home and you accidentally put some pins in our shared Add To Cart Pinterest board that were renovation so I can tell that there’s an aesthetic. And I’m hoping that it’s a shared aesthetic with you and my guess

SuChin Pak 

Well, then you’re good. Yeah, that’s what I mean. I’m like, you and I, we like basically the same thing. I mean, fine. Do the thing that you like to do. I’m going to be fine with that. Yeah,

Kulap Vilaysack 

I think that’s okay. Do the thing. And if you’re like, between two things, I can definitely pipe in, but it does. I think that’s okay to bring that up. Especially if you have the same aesthetic, because that’s not even like, House Hunters show or whatever someone’s like, I like country. Well, I like modern. Like, that’s where like there’s true, like, are we gonna meet in the middle? But if you have the same aesthetic, you know?

SuChin Pak 

Exactly. All right. Well, the saga continues. We’re gonna take a quick break, and then we’re back with more lovely add to carts.

SuChin Pak 

We’re back. So, Kulap, what have you added to your cart this week?

Kulap Vilaysack 

Well, it’s the end of Asian American Pacific Islander Heritage Month and Gold Rush is doing a AAPI Heritage Month sale. So, go to gold rush dot market to support incredible AAPI founded companies and enjoy exclusive deals until May 31 at 11:59pm pacific time, so I love them. Here’s some things that I’ve tried and loved and I know you’ve tried, too. I’m going to quickly go through them but great gr8nola, sugar granola made in unique and functional superfood flavors, like matcha, turmeric, chai, activated charcoal and more. There’s no soy, dairy, refined sugars or inflammatory oils. And there’s only like five grams of sugar per serving. My favorite was the black cocoa chia.

SuChin Pak  24:45

I mean, I loved it so much that I ordered a box of it after I tried it and then ordered another box for my father-in-law who also loved it. I mean, I’m not a granola person. This stuff was amazing. My kids love it. I’m telling you guys; this is so good. I keep looking back at the ingredients being like their stuff. Are you sure there’s no yep, there’s no sugar in this or at least it’s very little so it’s great. I love it

Kulap Vilaysack 

And you can get 20% off all products using code Gold Rush VIP. Another product that I’ve tried is Sanzo which is the first Asian inspired sparkling water. They use real fruit to deliver refreshing tastes, no added sugars. It’s delicious. We’ve got kalamasi, we’ve got mango, we’ve got lychee and if you go to the website it’s 10% off all products using code Gold Rush VIP. Another item that I love is Nona Lim. Nona Lim, you guys maybe have already seen it in whole foods in your local grocery store.

Kulap Vilaysack

She has some new stir-fried noodle kits, which makes it super easy to recreate your favorite takeout dish at home in like 15-10 minutes. So you can customize the stir fry however you’d like with proteins and toppings of your choice. I’ve tried the pod tie and I’ve tried the teriyaki using code Gold Rush VIP 25% off all products, excluding subscriptions and gift cards.

SuChin Pak  26:15

I actually just have been only eating Nona Lim for the past few weeks. It’s so damn easy. And then I cook a whole bunch of it and I put it in the fridge and have it for lunch. I made a Nona Lim dish last night. Just freestyling you know I did some ground pork. Did some kimchi. Didn’t some zucchini added their sauce to it. And what can I say I had so much of it that I made myself a little sick but hey, that’s not Nona Lim’s fault. I had a little tummy ache. That’s okay. Little Alka-Seltzer cleared that right up had a lot of it. It was amazing. And so good.

Kulap Vilaysack 

Things that I’ve added to cart and can’t wait for is the Opti, this is what Chriselle Lim was talking about in an earlier episode. And SuChin and I are going to do a video consultation so it’s with us but if you’re not familiar, Opti is a laser free high precision skin renewal applicator. And this device digitally scans your skin and like analyzes your complexion to detect like spots, discoloration and then it covers only the spots so that your natural beautiful skin shines through. So you go to the site 10% off and this isn’t a cheap product so get your 10% off. That’s 59.90 savings, that ain’t nothing using code Gold Rush VIP.

Kulap Vilaysack 

The other thing that is available now on their site is Glow recipe, a clean fruit powered fun skincare to bring out your inner glow. It’s Korean inspired, it’s gentle, it gives you bouncy glowing skin and in Palm Springs June, Casey and I we linked arms and we skipped into the local Sephora and what a thrill it was .June pointed out the watermelon Glow […] Oh my gosh.

SuChin Pak  28:16

Just a watermelon glow drops.

Kulap Vilaysack 

That’s what they are. And she did a demo for me and it looks so good on her face. So I’ll be using code Gold Rush VIP to get 15% off an order of 35 or more. That is just a sampling of what’s available. So make sure you check out the website. I’m gonna give it to you again. Go to goldrushdot.market

SuChin Pak 

Yay.

Kulap Vilaysack 

So Chen, please tell us what are your last two?

SuChin Pak 

Well, I really only have one thing. I decided after adding and all of that I was going to do a remove from cart. And I want to say Firstly, in this Bender-Pak household, we are driving each other effing crazy right now we’re cooped up. It’s hot, summers around the corner kids are about to be out. It’s just like, I don’t know. It’s like the energy is like […] all the time. And so we’ve been driving each other nuts. Everyone hates everyone in this house right now. But it’s also kind of funny. So I have a remove from cart. Mike likes to open my mail, Kulap.

Kulap Vilaysack 

No, that’s a no, no, that’s a hard no buddy. Bender, I’m with you on so many things. How SuChin does dishes how she loads a dishwasher. I’m with you, buddy. I’m right there. Not the mail, not the mail. So not the mama, not the mail.

SuChin Pak 

And by the way, he is the first person in line to be like, this is a wrong thing I’m doing and does it okay, so I asked him today he opened my credit card bill and he said oh this is for you. And I always the running joke is oh my goodness, the mail person is opening our mail, look at it came open. And he’s like, haha, I opened it. And then that’s the routine. And I said, you know, I want to talk about this. Why do you like opening my mail? Like, what would you say to someone? And what I mean by someone, everyone who hears this and he’s like, what are you talking about? Tell me the reasons. And so he gave me. I asked for five he wanted to give me six.

Kulap Vilaysack  30:30

Ask and you shall receive.

SuChin Pak 

He said number one, I’m curious. Number two, I didn’t get enough mail for myself.

Kulap Vilaysack 

Oh, wow, this is going in a place. I didn’t expect it. It’s delightful.

SuChin Pak 

Number three, because we’re married. And I feel like you would want me to have the experience of opening mail. Okay, number four, because I want to see it. Number five, maybe it’s urgent. And I need to make you aware of it. Because it takes you an extended period of time to open your mail. Do you see that? Do you see?

Kulap Vilaysack 

I was trying to see if this was like a thing. When Scott and I were like year two, he would let bills pile up to disastrous results. And at one point, I’m like, let’s open this mail. Let’s look at these bills. Let’s like, look at these notices. Let’s take this end, let’s sort and it was just the, you know, he had like a mental block. And it was a negative thing. So I’m wondering if I was trying to get to? Is that a thing that’s happened for you?

SuChin Pak 

Kulap, I can tell you that I may not know how to load a dishwasher. I don’t know how a dishwasher works, Kulap. But let me tell you this. This lady here doesn’t have debt. I don’t miss a credit card payment. I paid in full. I pay it the second I get it. My credit score is, some would say impeccable. Okay. Okay, so that’s offensive. And then the number six. If it’s a check, I just get really excited. And by the way, not his check. I was like, and I say, I worked for that check. I’m really excited to and I want to open up my checks. And he can’t help it.

Kulap Vilaysack  32:37

Mike, this is..

SuChin Pak 

Quite a list.

Kulap Vilaysack 

Do I appreciate like just the honesty? I like it. And his reasons are uncomplex,  there’s something that I can appreciate. They’re like, not laden with like trauma or like a lot of reasoning or like backstory. They’re really just sort of your primal urges. Mike as your buddy and I, I feel like we’re gonna be in each other’s lives for a long time. And our relationship will blossom just as well. We’re just taking the slow boat. I think this is something you should maybe try to switch that behavior. Try to move away from this.

SuChin Pak 

He’s gonna be heartbroken.

Kulap Vilaysack 

I will build you up in other ways. Mike, I love your book. I love your book. I’m you. I know you’re seeing my likes on the awkward family photos. You know, I gifted your book, baby shower recently, buddy, I’m a fan.

SuChin Pak 

Listen, if you can’t laugh about it, then you’re just fighting about it. You don’t know my new book on marriage. If you can’t laugh about it, you’re gonna fight about it. So we’re choosing to laugh. You know, some days it’s not so funny. But today, I found it hilarious that he opened up my credit card bill. Alright. That’s it for us.

Kulap Vilaysack  34:20

And with that we have reached the end of this episode, the end of this wonderful month. But don’t forget that while these months are important reminders, we should really be celebrating AAPI heritage and people all year round, in the same way that we should for women’s month and earth and pride of like history and all other months.

SuChin Pak 

That’s right. You can also check out our products at AddToCartPod will keep up a carousel for all the AAPI products so you can always come back to them right in our highlights. And keep calling baby. We’ll get to those voicemails 833-453-6662. I’m gonna leave a message later today. Just for good luck and I think that’s it.

Kulap Vilaysack

Thanks for listening!

CREDITS

ADD TO CART is a production of Lemonada Media. Our producer is Claire Jones and our editor is Ivan Kuraev. The music is by Wasahhbii and produced by La Made It and Oh So Familiar with additional music by APM music. Executive producers are Kulap Vilaysack, SuChin Pak, Jessica Cordova Kramer and Stephanie Wittels Wachs. Be sure to check out all the items we mentioned today on our Instagram at @AddToCartPod. Also, please take a moment to rate, review, and subscribe to the show wherever you get your podcast.