September 2, 2021

Jaime Revisits: Life Is Good, but Aging Sucks

In the age of impossible beauty standards for women, we need to have honest conversations with one another about how these unrealistic ideals affect our sense of health and wellbeing. There’s so much judgment for women who decide to alter their appearances, and yet – society also looks down on women for aging. No matter what, we can’t win. Relisten to hear Jaime discuss the pros and cons of aging, and answer listener questions on Botox, staying in shape, and how to feel sexy at any age!

September 2, 2021

Jaime Revisits: Body Dysmorphia and Company

In the age of impossible beauty standards for women, we need to have honest conversations with one another about how these unrealistic ideals affect our sense of health and wellbeing. If you struggle with body image issues, you are not alone. A recent study found 20 to 40 percent of women are dissatisfied with their bodies. Relisten to hear Jaime talk about her history with body dysmorphia and disordered eating, and chat with a listener who finds herself slipping back into her old eating disorder habits. Plus, a listener question about keeping up your self-esteem as you age.

May 6, 2021

BONUS: Catching up with Jaime

In this bonus episode, we catch up with Jaime after a few months off. You’ll hear about the Shore house, filming Beast in South Africa this summer, Jaime’s vaccine status, and more! Plus some never-before-heard tape from Season 1 that will have you truly laughing out loud.

February 4, 2021

I Still See Narcissists

For the final episode of Season 1, Jaime’s going back to the beginning and talking about narcissists. Being in a relationship with a narcissist was a pivotal moment in her life, and she wants to help others who find themselves in the same situation she was in 20 years ago. First up, a woman who divorced a narcissist but sees their daughter exhibiting similar traits. Then, someone wondering how to navigate interactions with her partner’s narcissistic father, whose behavior has caused a rift in the family. Finally, a listener who needs advice on how to leave her narcissist husband.

January 28, 2021

Are You There, God? It’s Me, Jaime.

Questioning your faith is a healthy part of belief. But sometimes it can lead to uncomfortable or unsettling places. This week, Jaime chats with a listener whose faith in God is strong, but is starting to rethink her relationship with her church after the events of 2020. Plus: a listener struggling with the death of her mother and another who feels like God just isn’t that into her.

January 21, 2021

Life Is Good, but Aging Sucks

Wrinkles. Sagging boobs. Chin hairs. Let’s be honest, aging isn’t fun. But as Jaime points out, there are also some pretty awesome things about getting older: you know you don’t have to tolerate other people’s crap, you’re more self-aware, and you know enough about your own body to finally have great sex.

January 14, 2021

Double Trouble

This week you get double the advice because Jaime’s friend Mary joins her for a grab bag episode of your questions! They advise a woman considering cheating on her husband as revenge for his infidelity, discuss what to do when you feel like you and your partner are sexually incompatible, talk about how to handle a draining friendship, and more.

December 24, 2020

A Marriage Conversation (Part 2)

It’s time for part two of the long-awaited conversation between Jaime and Michael! This time, they cover what Michael thought when Jaime told him she is bisexual, his reaction when she told him she was pregnant for the first time, how they deal with having very different love languages, if Jaime’s transparency bothers Michael, and much more.

FYI: Tell Me What to Do contains mature language and themes that may not be suitable for all listeners.

December 17, 2020

A Marriage Conversation (Part 1)

Grab a drink and pop some popcorn … it’s the conversation we have all been waiting for! We don’t know how Jaime convinced Michael to join her on mic, but she did. In part one of this two-part special, you’ll hear how they met, what Michael thinks of New Jersey, how their parenting styles differ, and much more. Plus, would Michael change anything about Jaime if he could?

FYI: Tell Me What to Do contains mature language and themes that may not be suitable for all listeners.

December 10, 2020

Fighting Over Faith

At its very core, religion is about shared beliefs. Those beliefs can vary widely — like between Judaism and Islam — or largely overlap — like with Baptists and Methodists. Either way, disagreements over religion can be some of the hardest issues to resolve. This week Jaime opens up about her religious journey from Judaism to Catholicism and answers questions from a listener who can’t agree with her partner about what religion to raise their children in, another who is struggling to come out as bisexual because of her faith, and a third who is fighting with her husband over what cemetery to be buried in.